I’ve never been one to worry about how much money a man makes, but when you are in the ”upper echelon of society” (as they explain when you begin a doctorate program), you have to recognize anyone who isn’t in or above your tax bracket won’t be able to accept that there is no competition, that you are not trying to be smarter than them, or that you don’t think you’re better than them.
I do not judge anyone for their educational level or their net worth, but I have learned a valuable lesson from ignoring the warnings of those great minds who came before me.
A lot of insecurities arise when you don’t “need” a man and you’re already doing things he has never even experienced.. So now your “man” has become your biggest competitor. His nature gives him the desire to lead and provide. He finds his worth in the provision... so if you don’t need him to be your provider, he’s forced to accept that he is loved as his authentic self.
That’s when the insecurities comes out...Some men cannot handle knowing they cannot give you the lifestyle you can give yourself (or more) AND others can’t accept your motivation to help them increase their net worth through investments or business ventures.
Some men don’t understand how to be loved without being financially needed.
You have to get to the point where you realize money actually is an issue, even when there are no money problems. Some people have been raised to survive and are content with a little extra, but they are still afraid to soar, to achieve greatness, to even dream or execute a vision. They are afraid of their own limitless potential, because they’re afraid to fail.
Beware of those people. You can be their friends, even best friends, but avoid the bitterness that comes when your “success” forces them to not only strive for more, but also to look in the mirror to find their authentic selves. You are their mirror! They may not even know who they are when the provider role is removed.
We grow spiritually and awaken to ourselves at different paces. I pray my own blessings will inspire others to greatness, and I’m still striving for even greater.
I will NEVER judge anyone for stagnation or contentment, and I pray they learn to know they are worth so much more. I pray they remember that God has promised us all lives better than we could ever imagine. I pray all kings (and queens) stand on God’s promises. You are our helpmates but God is our Source!
To the kings- Never grow bitter with someone who is sent to make you realize there is so much more to life if you’d only allow yourself to know who you are when money and degrees and job titles are removed from the equation. When a QUEEN like me sees a KING for who he is.. he needs to know none of those things matter.. still- Never stop growing. Never stop leveling up! Chase your dreams and allow your queen to inspire you and motivate you to greatness. We are here to remind you YOU ARE A KING and are capable of achieving the unimaginable - with God leading the way!
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